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Each of us has two distinct choices to make about what we will do with our lives. The first choice we can make is to be less than we have the capacity to be. To earn less, to have less, to read less and think less, to try less and discipline ourselves less. These choices lead to an empty life. These choices lead to a life of constant apprehension instead of a life of wondrous anticipation.
And the second choice, to do it all!….. To become all that we can possibly be. To read every book that we possibly can. To earn as much as we possibly can. To strive, produce, and accomplish as much as we possibly can. All of us have the choice.
To do or not to do. To be or not to be. To be all or to be less or to be nothing at all.
Like the tree, it would be a worthy challenge for us all to stretch upward and outward to the full measure of our capabilities. Why not do all that we can, every moment that we can, the best that we can, for as long as we can?
Our ultimate life objective should be to create as much as our talent and ability. To settle for doing less that we could do is to fail in this worthiest of undertakings.
Results are the best measurement of human progress. Not conversation. Not explanation. Not justification. Results! In addition, if the results are less than our potential suggests that they should be, then we must strive to become more today than we were the day before.
The greatest rewards are always reserve for those who bring great value to themselves and the world around them because of whom and what they have become.
Most of us have lots of fears. Fears of rejection and fears of failure. So always, think of this.
If you do mistakes, so what, nobody is perfect. You can strive better next time. If they will reject you, then so be it, think that they are just a challenges to overcome . If you fail, then learn from your failure, and start all over again tomorrow. Everybody fails
one way or another. Thomas Edison failed over 3,000 times to develop the light bulb. Think about scientist. They are the failure masters: they never get it right the first time. Did you know that Colonel Saunders went through nine years of failure just to perfect his secret blend of herbs that the KFC Chicken having now a days.
It takes a lot of courage and hope … But we always have to choice along the way, “to do or not to do, to be or not to be”.


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I always remember what my mom used to tell me about her life when I was a kid. She said, ”  Life is very short. Its just like yesterday when I was a little girl, I used to water our eggplants and feed our pigs every morning and afternoon. I  still remember when I was in high school,all my friends that i used to hang out with,. I remember how my younger brother Nedi tease me all the time and make me cry.

Now, im 36 and blessed with a  good husband and 5 lovely daughters. I don’t know when I die, but life is very short.  One year after,my mom died….. She wasn’t ill or anything, she just had a sudden heart failure. We are all very down and depressed that time.

Every time I remember what my mom told me, It reminds me how important each time we spend in our life. Each year, month, day, hour, minute, and second we live. Every moment is a chance to live better, to live happy and to live more better person than we are yesterday.

If you are to ask, What if tomorrow you will die? Are you ready?What would be your answer?

Probably most of us would say,  I’m not ready, I still have a lot of things I wanna do in my life,, my dreams and plans, I still need to show and say I love you to my mom and dad, brother and sister, my wife and children and friends. Some say,I need to reconcile to somebody.Others may say I still want to travel to Italy or Paris, in Rome and other great places. I’m not ready, I never went confession yet and Im never been a better person for the past years, I still need to say sorry to some people… And many other reasons….

Sometimes we forget that we are only borrower of our life, and that we abused our chances. We always spend much more time on this earthly things than our own family. We worries a lot about things that will come to pass… And  more sad when we  see people who step ones right and dignity for sake of this earthly things. Every life is significant in each different way. Its a gift from God. We only live our life once, so we ought to do our best as we could while we are still here.We will not come back when tomorrow we will die.

Its very beautiful to imagine when we are old  and dying, when we have done all the best things in our life, when there are people surround us  that always there to love and care for us. People who always there through good  and bad times.

Spend more time with your family, show them how much you love them… Don’t waste time, for we never know tomorrow we may die.

Do a little act of love and kindness each day and you will see how beautiful life will be when you are love by people surrond you.

Ask forgiveness to all people  you offended and you will find peace. Try not to worry too much and learn how to surrender everything to God. And trust Him, for He satisfy our needs.

If you have live in sins for many years, repent and do your best to stay away from sins from now on…. If you don’t want to change your life now,then when? When you have very little time left ?Or might be too late in the future.  Now, is the right time. Change your life, live happily, live with peace and love, and you will see how great your life is.

And when your dying you can say to yourself ,I’m ready.I lived my life to fullest.

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We all want to have a healthy heart, healthy soul, and healthy life. But part of our journey in life  are those times we experience loneliness and depression, sometimes even scared. This, may lead us to unhappy, miserable life and so as with our souls. Its a hard time. Hard to get over…….

I will share to you some tips on how you can handle depression and loneliness in a powerful ways. This is what i do in my down moments of  my life.

1. Recognize what you feel. I mean don’t hide it Because the More you hide it and pretend , the more scared,depressed and lonely you will be.

2. If you feel like crying, then cry….Don’t hold it…If you think you lose or weak when you cry,  You’re not! You just wanna let it go whats inside your heart and set it free. Everybody cry even King, wisemen,or criminals..They all do. If you don’t feel like crying, Then just be yourself.

3. Try to talk to God…If its hard for you to do,Just tell Him,hey God its hard i don’t know how to do it, show me how . He cares about you more than anybody you know.He cares how you feel..He knows your hurt and He is always there to comfort you. Talk to Him all your fears, all about you feel and you think. For sure you will feel much better

4. Go outside your room. Look around you. The people who is there and all those who cares and love you always. If you live alone, go outside, look at the nature, the birds, the little plants and flowers. Look at them closely. Think how they live and how they grow. Its amazing! How they find thier food and how they survived.Some of the plants if anyone forget to water them in a couple of days, they may die, but they never worry or afraid.God cares and love so much of His creation,much more with you.. The birds, they greet you a melodious song when you wake up every morning.There are lots of things surrounds us that give us meaning to life and inspiration

Depression, is natural but, don’t let them down or paralyzed you… Face it! Don’t choose to escape from it!

Don’t get drunk you will only have headache  when you wake up in the morning, and still realized depression and loneliness is still there. Don’t caught up on drugs either, you will be just making it worst and ruin your future life.. Don’t do any sexual, you will just regret it and find yourself even more depressed and lonely……. But rather , Be Brave! and face depression and loneliness with confident. I know its never  easy but Trust yourself, and  specially in God. Ask His help and guidance…. It wont be hard anymore..

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